For young people
Thinking of running away...get informed!
You may think: I’ll get my own place and stay out all night,
pick my friends and wear what I want. But in reality that's not
how it works.
Until you finish school, it will be hard to get a job that will
pay for a flat, food, clothes and partying. Your 'own place' may be a park bench, and dinner may be scraps out of other
people’s rubbish. If you’re staying on a mate’s sofa, remember it
gets crowded, people usually ask you to leave after a while.
Stealing - a big temptation when you’re hungry - could land you in
trouble with the police - maybe even in prison. Many young people are forced to sell their bodies just to get money
for food, and prostitution can leave a person sick, pregnant or
DEAD.
So before you leave home, try to solve your problems another
way. Get help. If, after speaking with someone, you decide you
cannot stay at home, make sure you have a SAFE place to go before
you leave.
By SAFE, we mean somewhere where there are people you
know you can trust. Strangers or people you know a bit might offer
you somewhere, but you don’t really know what they’re after.
Call your parents to let them know you’re ok. Hopefully after a
while you’ll feel like going home and talking it through. They’ll
be less angry if you’ve shown you’ve thought about THEIR feelings
while you’ve been away.
If you don’t want to phone in case they start an argument, phone
the Message Home Helpline on 0800 700 740 and ask them to let your
family know you’re OK.
You could do with someone impartial for a bit of advice and
support. ASTRA can help - we’ll let you know what your options are
and we won't force you to go home if you’re not ready. Call us for
free on
0800 3894992.
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